When all your friends are into the same few things, and you have other hobbies that you’re also very passionate about, you can feel stuck in a way as you can't discuss them with them.
(Example: You might want to talk about Brad Pitt’s latest movie, but nobody in your friend group is interested in the cinematic world like you are.)
But when you’ve that one friend who’s a total sports fanatic and another who’s deep into indie music, one who’s all about cars & watches, one who’s about art, you get the best of all worlds. You might find yourself attending an opera one weekend and a football game the next.
These experiences not only broaden your horizons but also help you go deeper into your different passions or even interests you might never have considered.
Filling Different Needs
Let's face it, no single friendship can fulfil every emotional or social need you have. And that’s totally okay!
One group of friends might not share your love for hiking, but maybe they’re amazing at giving advice when you’re going through a tough time.
Meanwhile, another friend might not be the best at deep conversations, but they’re always down for a spontaneous road trip.
Having friends with different interests means you can enjoy various aspects of life without feeling like you’re missing out.
Learning and Growing
Diverse friendships are like having a built-in learning network. You get exposed to different cultures, viewpoints, and even ways of thinking. This is especially valuable when you're in your late teens and early twenties, a time when you’re forming your identity and figuring out your values. Your friends can challenge your beliefs in a healthy way, encouraging you to grow and evolve.
Plus, it makes for some pretty fascinating conversations when everyone brings something different to the table.
Building a Support System
Life can be unpredictable, and having a diverse group of friends means you have a more robust support system. When one friend isn’t available or doesn’t quite understand what you’re going through, you’re more likely to find someone who does.
This network of varied friendships can offer a range of perspectives and advice, making it easier to navigate life’s challenges.
Enriching Your Life
At the end of the day, diverse friendships make life more colorful and interesting.
They add richness to your experiences and memories, making each moment unique.
Whether it's trying new foods from a friend's culture, learning a new skill, or just enjoying different types of humor, diverse friendships can make your life feel fuller and more connected.
Conclusion
So, if you’re ever feeling like your social circle is a bit too one-dimensional, it might be time to branch out. Join that club you’ve been curious about, talk to that classmate who’s into something you’ve never tried, or just be open to new experiences.
You’d be surprised how much you can gain from stepping out of your usual circle and embracing the diversity around you.
You Got Me? (Friendship Essentials) is a book that will give you the tools to differentiate real friends from those who aren't, and discover how great friendships can transform your life, because life is always better with true friends by your side.
